February 20, 2014

The Expat Wife Prayer

This prayer has been making the rounds for a while. I have read it over and over again and am not quite sure whether to cry or to laugh. I do believe it applies more to those who have trodden off the beaten path in less developed countries. My Expat life has been between Europe and the Americas - I am still hoping that one day our path will lead us to Asia - although we have had our fair share of unexpected surprises.

Rest assure that someone will have to listen to my stories one day when my expat days are over, if only in my blog. ;)

Heavenly Father, look down on us your humble obedient expat wives who are doomed to travel this earth following our loved ones through their working lives to lands unknown. We beseech you, oh Lord, to see that our plane is not hijacked or doesn't crash, our luggage is not lost or pillaged and our overweight baggage goes unnoticed.

Give us this day divine guidance in our selection of houses, maids and drivers. We pray that the telephone works, the roof does not leak, the power cuts are few and the rats and cockroaches even fewer.

Lord, please lead us to good, inexpensive restaurants where wine is included in the meal and the food does not cause dysentery. Have mercy upon us Lord if it be the latter, make us fleet of foot, to make the loo in time, and strong of knee in case we have to squat. Also give us the wisdom to tip correctly in currencies we do not understand.

Make the natives love us Lord for who we are and not for what we can contribute to their worldly goods. Grant us the strength to smile at our maids, even though our most treasured dress resembles a rag or they take bleach to clean our well-admired Persian rug.

Give us divine patience when we explain for the hundredth time the way we want things done and Lord if we ever lose our patience and thump them, have mercy on us for our flesh is weak.

Dear God, protect us from so-called "bargains" we don't need and can't afford. Lead us not into temptation for we know not what we do.

Almighty Father, keep our husbands from looking at foreign women and comparing them to us. Save them from making fools of themselves in nightclubs. Above all, please do not forgive their trespasses for they know exactly what they do.

And when our expat years are over Lord, grant us the favor of finding someone who will look at our photographs and listen to our stories, so our lives as expat wives will not have been in vain.


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  1. this is funny, except for the part about the maids which is frankly a bit obnoxious. That said, I can relate to most of of it, and it's kind of funny to see ho many feel the same way :-)

  2. I totally agree, but after living in developping countries, I must admit, it does start making sense. However, not everybody treats their maids with human respect, unfortunately, of what we have seen.

  3. Troppo forte! Questa me la copio per il mio libro expat!


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